what's the Best Way to Introduce a Sex toy in a Relationship?

[QuentinRayden]

hey everyone! I've been thinking on introducing a vibrator into my relationship, but I'm not sure how to bring it up with my partner. We have a pretty wholesome sex life, but I feel like this could add some fun. Has anybody here done this? How did you approach the conversation?

[KellanOliver]

hey, I was in the same boat a while back. I just brought it up during a casual conversation about striving new factors in bed. I mentioned that I'd read some articles about vibrators enhancing pleasure for both partners and that it could be fun to try together. My partner was a bit surprised firstly, but they were open to the idea once we talked on it more.

[RussellCain]

I consider it depends on your partner's comfort level with toys. I started by suggesting we try something new to kick things up, and then asked how they'd feel on employing a sex toy. It was significant to stress that it was on adding to our experience, not replacing anything. We terminated up picking one out each other, which made the procedure more fun and less intimidating.

[KellanOliver]

communication is key! I brought it up soon after we watched a movie where a couple used a adult toy. I asked what my friend thought on it, and that opened up the dialogue normally. We terminated up purchasing one together, and now it's a regular part of our routine.

[CasenJuelz]

I agree. Making it a joint choice can help. Maybe advise browsing some options on the internet together? It can be a fun way to explore what's out there and decide what may well work for both of you.